Phone Numbers

Phone numbers and email addresses are contact details and results in fake numbers & ﬂakes. Your game should be designed such that taking a phone number is a last resort and backup. Always, try to get as much as possible from the situation you have. Don’t limit yourself to phone numbers. Every guy can take her phone number. It’s EASY. Can you sleep with a phone number? No. Always try to push it as far as it will go. If you cannot get her home and have sex with her or have some other logistical problem take contact info. Never ask for number directly, like, “Can you give me your phone number?” or, “What’s your phone number?” It sounds too needy and you’re giving her the opportunity to say no. Don’t ask for anything. Never ask for permission, instead just do it.

So how do you take a phone number without asking? Example: “This was a really interesting conversation. Let’s continue it some other time… Here, write down your number, I will call you”. I never asked for it and I still get the number. It’s more of a command. It’s polite, but dominantly polite. Like all master persuaders say, “Assume the sale.” When you get a phone number, don’t run away that same second like it was your mission to get a silly number. Stay and talk for a few more minutes and then say goodbye and tell her you will call her in a few days.

Don’t mention any kind of dates or having a relationship. Don’t create pressure with a dating frame. You are meeting her for a cup of coffee and interesting conversation or whatever… That way there is no pressure on her that will make her have second thoughts about meeting up. And whenever they mention sex, dating or a relationship, tell them that YOU just want to get to know her. Remember – you are the chooser.