Being In The Moment

"being in the moment" with girls or the "being present" story technique. Basically means bringing them into a story as you're telling it and making it a "present" thing. ie/ Speaker: "Okay so we're out in the water together surfing -- you're me over there, and we see this dorsal fin coming straight towards us etc". Its telling a story and placing her in the story with you. .You may then logistically escalated by getting her to move to another part of the bar to talk.